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Femdom ceremony and sexual arousal

At the suggestion of a reader (Mistress Sweet_and_Sour) who happens to be a woman practicing and enjoying many aspects of the female-led lifestyle, this post will explore the connection between sexual arousal and ceremony in Femdom and the female-led lifestyle.

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I have had the drawing above for many years, and have always found it to be particularly appealing, and arousing. I am not sure if there…

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Femdom Lifestyle celebrates its one year birthday on Tumblr today! Enjoy the party…

Taking charge for her pleasure

I came across a cartoon I had saved several years ago that I think summarizes all the erotic pleasures of a female led relationship (for both the leader and the led).

(I am not sure who drew it or posted it, so if it is copyrighted please let me know.)

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Over 100,000 Views to Femdom Lifestyle

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Femdom Lifestyle wants to wish all its followers a very Happy New Year!

These 10 pictures represent the self-assured women of the Femdom Lifestyle who enjoy being in control of their men (and/or women). Each sits comfortably, as her (naked) devotee kneels at her feet.

Will it be a paddling, or will she allow her thrall to masturbate? Will it be a strap on dildo tonight? Only she knows what the future has in store tonight and next year…

Happy 2014!

Over 2,500 Views of the Femdom Lifestyle!

Femdom Lifestyles now has surpassed 2500 views!

Another testament to all those women leaders,…

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One Woman’s list of Femdom Principles

For a man like me, who craves to serve women and has been searching for guidance from a woman who…

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Advice about the importance of pegging from a woman in a female led marriage:

Here is some advice from a woman in a Female-led marriageabout training her man (the…

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Femdom Lifestyles now has surpassed the first 300 followers on Tumblr.

What a testament for all those women leaders, and the men and women who worship them!

Favorites seem to be (in order):

Pegging (Being taken by her strap-on dildo)

CFNM (Clothed Female Nude Male)

Male Chastity Devices

The Many Aspects of Sexual Female Domination

Femdom Corporal Punishment

Femdom Training

From Boardroom to Bedroom

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)


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Femdom training:

When it comes to understanding what women want and need, it is certain that most men have no clue. This is especially true in our current male-centric society where women are still regarded as submissive to men and are expected to serve their man’s needs. In addition, it is still considered a taboo in our society for a man to take a submissive role in a heterosexual relationship.

What is your reaction at the pictures above? Does it seem natural? Would it be different if the roles were reversed? Do the men seem any less masculine because they are ‘serving’ their woman’s needs or worshiping her?

It is safe to say that even for the man who might be interested in the femdom lifestyle, there is a lot to learn… or perhaps unlearn… before he can truly fit into the lifestyle. Not only must he learn the particular whims and pleasures of his woman/Mistress, he must also be broken of the well ingrained concepts that most men have had instilled in them.

He has to be trained to adopt as an instinct that he is there to serve his Mistress. He has to understand what it is to cede control (especially sexual control) to his woman, and at the same time find fulfillment in her sexual gratification- even when he is denied his own.

Femdom training can take many different directions, depending on the woman’s prerogative. It can be mostly domestic, making the man do the house chores or whatever else his woman commands; but ultimately it is a sexual re-education.

Some of the potential methods of femdom training may include (but are certainly not limited to) corporal punishment, sexual rewards, orgasm denial, pegging, sexual humiliation and even male chastity.

Many of these have been discussed in other posts, but two tools of femdom training are particularly useful in femdom reeducation: the establishment of a teacher (woman)/ schoolboy relationship and teaching the man to enjoy taking a sexually submissive role.

The establishment of a ‘re-education’ school (or clinic, or institute) is a good way to introduce role-playing into the relationship- and introduce the man to the his new Teacher. Even if the man is older and more sexually experienced than the woman, he is still ignorant of how to behave in his new role and this immediately puts his Mistress/teacher in command. The woman might want to lay down the rules for her new pupil and back it up with a list of rewards and punishments depending on his progress.

The punishment can vary depending on the woman’s preference. The more strict might include corporal punishment, while the more demure woman might choose orgasm denial. Rewards should mostly have a sexual aspect, but designed to make it clear that the woman is now in charge of his sexuality. Rewards might include being allowed to masturbate in front of his Mistress or be allowed to pleasure his Mistress (any way she chooses).

The rest of the re-education curriculum can be left up to the woman’s imagination.

Finally, another important component of a man’s sexual reeducation should include experiencing the pleasure of ceding sexual control to his woman. For some women this might simply be denying orgasm for long periods (or even locking his manhood in a male chastity device) and then allowing him an orgasm under her conditions. But probably the most effective way to have him experience loss of control is by being taken by the woman with a dildo- preferably with a strap-on dildo . (This is called pegging and is further discussed here).

Readers are encouraged to add their own suggestions and or comments.

Femdom From Boardroom to Bedroom

Female supremacy or female domination (A.K.A.  Femdom) is a lifestyle that can be divided…

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The Many Aspects of Sexual Female Domination

Femdom is all about putting the woman first; and the Femdom lifestyle now permeates every aspect of…

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Femdom male re-education

When it comes to understanding what women want and need, it is certain that most men…

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